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To Give Life...To Give Hope...To Give Together...Gay and Straight!
Meet Members who are Sperm Donors, Co-Parents, Egg Donors and Surrogates!
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Based on the beauty of knowing your Donor/Recipient as a Father and Mother, as well as known donors. Correspond, using your own judgment to "know best" who you're getting. Inexpensive Screen Tests, Drug Test Kits, Sperm Count Test Kits, Ovulation Test Kits and much more. You can perform all the easy tests, your own inseminations and avoid high costs. View Photos, Baby Photos, Physical Characteristics, Life History, Family History and General Health. This is the time in life where children will see that their being born was no accident!
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CHANGE OUR FUTURE...We can change the deterioration of our society!
Conception through unknown donors can affect generations to come. Considering the number of conceptions from the usage of a single sperm bank donor, the likelihood of future inbreeding will increase. Not having the invaluable knowledge of knowing who our half brothers and sisters are will most likely result in birth defects in generations that follow.
YOU be the judge of your Donors/Recipients abilities.
Unfortunately, sperm and embryo banks don't have a test for mental capacity. Many men and women can walk into a bank (Heterosexual or Gay) and describe themselves as having good genes and being mentally stable. The reality is, how we portray ourselves is not entirely known.
Egg Donors:
Young women can give the gift of life by becoming an egg donor. There are couples who desperately want a child, but the woman or wife is not fertile. You can decide what your eggs are worth. There are couples out there who may give to you dearly for giving them the gift of bearing a child.
Egg Buyers:
This is a time when it may be a good idea to put all your eggs in one basket.You have the advantage of owning all the eggs from the retrieval. You are probably very aware of how extremely expensive one single egg costs from a bank or agent. The egg donors in which a cryo bank has obtained are paid a smidgen, compared to the amount of money that the cryo banks sell each individual egg for. And remember, your other advantage is that you get to evaluate your egg donor, using your own judgment.
A lot of gay women/lesbians who order through sperm banks end up deciding to adopt a child because their funds have run out after the costs of sperm delivery and several inseminations and yet, not becoming pregnant.
If you`re one who has been ordering from sperm banks and not becoming pregnant, wondering if there is anything else you can do to heighten your chances, you may want to think about this...
Your Donor's Pheromones can help you conceive:
Pheromones play an important but hidden part in a woman's fertility. This hormone is secreted from under the arm of the Male sweat gland and has been shown to stimulate the woman's luteal phase. The luteal phase is the day after ovulation and runs through the remainder of a woman's cycle. It is also frequently referred to as "days past ovulation." During the luteal phase, a women produces progesterone, increasing her temperature. This higher temperature acts like an incubator which is important in maturing a fertilized egg if conception has occurred. A normal luteal phase is approximately 12-16 days and needs to be at least 10 days for implantation to take place. A short luteal phase can cause fertility problems making it difficult for a woman to become pregnant. Studies show that chemicals in men's bodies can cause their female partner to be more fertile after regularly inhaling the male essence. We might normally call this essence male sweat or natural body odor. For example: Men trying to impregnate their spouse should NOT use underarm antiperspirants.
In a scientific study, this male essence or pheromone was swabbed three times a week under the nose of several women whose cycles typically lasted less than 26 days or more than 33 days, which is a lower fertility. By the third month of treatment, the average length of the women's cycles approached the optimum of 29.5 days. This cycle length is associated with the highest fertility.
So smelling a handkerchief that has been swabbed from your donor's underarm can very well enhance your chances. You might say that exposure to pheromones is the essence of acceptance, and helps promote reproductive health. Women who order from sperm banks sometimes switch to another sperm bank donor, thinking she may not be compatible with the donor when she doesn't become pregnant. Pheromones are another sense of introduction, so getting to know your donor on a more in-depth level is all worth while.
Choosing your child's next of kin:
Some men and women may choose a donor or recipient because, in his or her profile, it appears that this person is intelligent, smart, confident, good looks, or this individual may be in medical school. There are many wonderful intelligent people weather they are carpenters, painters, doctors, homemakers, etc. What is important is to know who this person is and what this person's demeanor is all about. Remember, the born child will carry 24 chromosomes from the Mother and 24 chromosomes from the Father which convey hereditary characteristics. Whether you choose a high school drop out who is a Mozart, or a Doctorate...leisuring all known, you get to make the choice regarding your child's next of Kin.
We offer options for GAY MEN and HETEROSEXUAL MEN, who have dreams of becoming a Father and playing a part in the child/rens life, given what privileges are offered from "both parties/couples" decisions. This is a way to excel personal growth and development, making your world a joy for living!
Many Donors welcome signing a contract. Also, many Recipients welcome a Father/Donor into the life of the born child with or without signing a contract.
There are many wonderful men who are eager to have the chance of becoming a Father/Co-Parent. Many of them are willing to help out financially, or even insist that they cover all the costs for the recipient to conceive a child. A lot of Moms truly do want their Child/ren to know their Dad without having financial issues.
There are many Women who will cover all the costs for donor testing and procedures, to accomplish her wish. There are others who simply wish to accomplish it together.
We offer GAY MEN, GAY WOMEN & HETEROSEXUALS the opportunity to open NEW doors of communication, as well as options to search for ones who are willing to sign over their parental rights to you.
Some people think that gay people will have gay babies. There are all kinds of heterosexuals having gay children and all kinds of gay couples having heterosexual children. No scientific consensus exists as to how biology influences sexual orientation. Homosexuality has existed since ancient times and will continue to exist regardless of our nature.
Many gay men have confessed to donating their sperm to sperm banks, in the hope of having a child out there "somewhere" that he helped bring into this world. Most sperm banks are not able to bring to light, the portion of their donors who are gay nor do they wish to make this known.
Knowing your biological parents:
We see adults everyday suffering emotionally, wondering who their biological parent may be and not having pictures to hand down from their biological parent and his/her ancestors. Many donors are never found or are no longer living by the time the child/ren have the chance to search on their own. Also, many recipients do not report their pregnancies. There are Mothers today trying to find their child's donor. There are children today questioning their mother's on why they chose that path. Children want to know their biological Father. If "YOU" were born through a sperm/embryo bank, would you want to know who your biological parents are?
There are Lesbian couples who've had relentless counts of artificial inseminations to conceive a child with only "one" being the biological parent. Unfortunately for some, when couple's END a relationship, it is the child's welfare that is commonly the main concern in the end.
There are many wonderful non-biological Parents who take on the responsibilities of parenthood regardless of relationship issues, but this site gives you RANGE.
There are many ways to achieve what you are searching for and this is a great way to know, using your own discretion on who you have as a donor/recipient/Parent.
You have the opportunity to offer the gift to your born Child/ren of knowing who their biological donor is.
You have a choice in making your own decisions.
You have a choice in changing the outcome of our generations.
Best wishes on your journey.
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