Conception through unknown donors can
affect generations to come. Considering the number of conceptions from the usage
of a single sperm/egg donor, the likelihood of future inbreeding
will increase. Not having the invaluable knowledge of knowing who our
half brothers and sisters are will most likely result in birth defects in
generations that follow.
You make the judgment of your
Donors/Recipients abilities:
Unfortunately, sperm, embryo banks, nor do
we have a test for mental capacity. Many men and women can walk into a place
(Heterosexual or Gay) and describe themselves as having good genes and
being mentally stable. The reality is, how we portray ourselves is not entirely
known.
Egg Donors:
You can give someone a gift by becoming
an egg donor. There are couples who desperately want a
child. Correspond personally instead of having a third party
involved. Any person or persons who have interests in you becoming their
egg donor, surrogate or sperm donor, or any details on the clinical location in
which your recipient would like for you to go is handled between you and your
seeker. There are all kinds of people looking for a particular look,
knowledge and characteristics.
Looking for an Egg
Donor?
This is a time when it may be a good idea to
put all your eggs in one basket.You have the advantage of having all the eggs
from the egg donor retrieval. Have you ever thought about giving to your egg
donor instead of paying all that money to use a third party? Many infertile
couples seek out their donor personally and fertilize all the eggs before
freezing them. That way, you are able to have
them anytime you want. The eggs become yours. You basically own them!
You are probably very aware of how extremely expensive it is to obtain
eggs from a bank or agent. The egg donors are paid a smidgen after their
eggs are retrieved compared to the amount of money a bank sells those eggs for.
Remember, your other advantage is that you get to evaluate your egg donor, using
your own judgment.
Sperm for
conception:
There
are many wonderful men who are very eager to have a child and would be more than
happy to help out with the costs, or even insist on covering all cost of
inseminations for the opportunity to become a Father/Co-Parent. Children want to
know their donor Father and with every right to! Take the opportunity to open
new doors of communication and accomplishing together, as well as options
to search for ones who are willing to sign over their parental rights to you.
This is a way to excel personal growth and development, making your world a joy
for living!
A lot of women who order through sperm banks end up deciding to adopt a child
because their funds have run out after the costs of sperm delivery and several
inseminations and still no pregnancy.
If you`re one who has been ordering
from sperm banks and not becoming pregnant, wondering if there is anything else
you can do to heighten your chances, you may want to think about this...
Your Donor's pheromones can help you
conceive:
Pheromones play an important but hidden part
in a woman's fertility. This hormone is secreted from under the arm of the
Male sweat gland and has been shown to stimulate the woman's luteal phase.
The luteal phase is the day after ovulation and runs through the remainder of a
woman's cycle. It is also frequently referred to as "days past ovulation."
During the luteal phase, a woman produces progesterone, increasing her
temperature. This higher temperature acts like an incubator which is important
in maturing a fertilized egg if conception has occurred. A normal luteal phase
is approximately 12-16 days and needs to be at least 10 days for implantation to
take place. A short luteal phase can cause fertility problems making it
difficult for a woman to become pregnant. Studies show that chemicals in men's
bodies can cause their female partner to be more fertile after regularly
inhaling the male essence. We might normally call this essence male sweat or
natural body odor. For example: Men trying to impregnate their spouse should NOT
use underarm antiperspirants.
In a scientific study,
this male essence or pheromone was swabbed three times a week under the
nose of several women whose cycles typically lasted less than 26 days or more
than 33 days, which is a lower fertility. By the third month of treatment, the
average length of the women's cycles approached the optimum of 29.5 days.
This cycle length is associated with the highest fertility. So, exposing
yourself to the essence of your donor can very well enhance your chances. You
might say that exposure to pheromones is the essence of acceptance, and helps
promote reproductive health. Women who order from sperm banks sometimes switch
to another sperm bank donor, thinking she may not be compatible with the donor
when she doesn't become pregnant. Pheromones are another sense of introduction,
so getting to know your donor on a more in-depth level is all worth
while.
Choosing your child's next of kin:
Some men and women may choose a donor or
recipient because, in his or her profile, this person looks
intelligent, confident, good looking, in medical school, in law school. There
are all kinds of smarts….book smarts, life smarts, inventiveness smarts,
artistic smarts, communication smarts, athletic smarts. But don’t overlook the
need to scratch beyond the surface and know the importance of heart and soul
smarts. What is important is to know who this person is and what this person's
demeanor is all about. Remember, the born child will carry 23 chromosomes
from the Mother and 23 chromosomes from the Father, which convey hereditary
characteristics. Whether you choose a high school drop out who is a Mozart, or a
Doctorate who likes playing tic tac toe, You make the choice regarding your
child’s next of kin.
Some people think that
gay people will have gay babies. There are all kinds of heterosexuals
having gay children and all kinds of gay couples having heterosexual children.
No scientific consensus exists as to how biology influences sexual orientation.
Homosexuality has existed since ancient times and will continue to exist
regardless of our nature. Many gay men have confessed to donating their sperm to
sperm banks, in the hope of having a child out there "somewhere" that he helped
bring into this world. Most sperm banks are not able to bring to light, the
portion of their donors who are gay nor do some of them wish to make this
known.
Knowing your biological
parents:
We see adults everyday suffering
emotionally, wondering who their biological parent may be and not having
pictures to hand down from their biological parent and his/her ancestors. Many
donors are never found or are no longer living by the time the child/ren have
the chance to search on their own. Also, many recipients do not report their
pregnancies. There are Mothers today trying to find their child's donor. There
are children today questioning their mothers on why they chose that path. If you were
born through a sperm/embryo bank, would you want to know who your biological
parents are?
There are
Lesbian couples who've had relentless counts of artificial inseminations to
conceive a child with only "one" being the biological parent. Unfortunately for
some, when couple's end a relationship, it is the child's welfare that is
commonly the main concern in the end. There are many wonderful non-biological
Parents who take on the responsibilities of parenthood regardless of
relationship issues, but this site gives you range.
There are many ways to achieve
what you are searching for and this is a great way to know, using your own
discretion on who you have as a Donor/Recipient/Parent.
You have the opportunity
to offer the gift to your born Child/ren of knowing who their biological donor
is.
You
have a choice in making your own decisions.
You have a choice in changing the
outcome of our generations.
Best wishes on your journey.
